The Lemi Library

What we know, what we feel and what helps

Curiosity Before Clarity
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Curiosity Before Clarity

We've become remarkably good at explaining ourselves. I'm not sure we've become better at listening to ourselves.

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Morning Matters
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Morning Matters

Discover how a simple, healthy morning routine can support your mental health, reduce stress and create a calmer start to the rest of your day.

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BPD Isn’t What You Think
Sue Brown Sue Brown

BPD Isn’t What You Think

Self-harm and emotional intensity are only part of the story. Here’s a clearer, more accurate look at borderline personality disorder—and why it’s so often misunderstood.

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Therapy Without the Couch
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Therapy Without the Couch

If you like the idea of therapy that includes fresh air, movement and conversation, walk and talk sessions might be a good fit for you.

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How to Regret Better
Sue Brown Sue Brown

How to Regret Better

Instead of clinging to the idea of living life with no regrets, what if we learned to embrace them? What if we used regret as a kind of compass for better living?

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Stop Beating Yourself Up
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Stop Beating Yourself Up

That voice in your head calling you a failure? It’s lying. Research shows self-compassion boosts resilience and motivation, while self-criticism does the opposite.

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