The Lemi Library

Explore Diagnoses, treatments and practical ways to feel better

BPD Isn’t What You Think It Is
Sue Brown Sue Brown

BPD Isn’t What You Think It Is

Self-harm and emotional intensity are only part of the story. Here’s a clearer, more accurate look at borderline personality disorder—and why it’s so often misunderstood.

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Therapy Without the Couch
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Therapy Without the Couch

If you like the idea of therapy that includes fresh air, movement and conversation, walk and talk sessions might be a good fit for you.

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How to Regret Better
Sue Brown Sue Brown

How to Regret Better

Instead of clinging to the idea of living life with no regrets, what if we learned to embrace them? What if we used regret as a kind of compass for better living?

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Stop Beating Yourself Up
Sue Brown Sue Brown

Stop Beating Yourself Up

That voice in your head calling you a failure? It’s lying. Research shows self-compassion boosts resilience and motivation, while self-criticism does the opposite.

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What Social Media Gets Wrong about Therapy
Sue Brown Sue Brown

What Social Media Gets Wrong about Therapy

We’re more “mental health aware” than ever—but are we actually better off for it? Between buzzwords, podcast diagnoses and TikTok therapists, it’s getting harder to tell what’s helpful and what’s just noise.

Here’s what I’m seeing in the therapy room.

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